One became two, then the rain came followed by the sun. And then there was three! We tilled and toiled, before we caught our breath there was four. Years passed,, and the landscaped change. Rest was forthcoming or so we thought, then the seedling sprouted and soon there will be five. True love is born out of sacrifice God is good!

Kids Japan Trip Dec 2010

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Give A Christmas Gift Which Can Transform Lives

How would you like to give something much needed by the poor? That is to a child or family suffering in poverty across the globe!

Example of gifts such as :-

Lesotho – Two apple trees and Three $11 or $77 trees for 7 children

Mongolia - $20 Winter boots or $100 Winter boots for 5 children

Ethiopia – $94 One goat or $155 One Sheep or $498 A pair of goats and sheep for an orphan

Cambodia – $136 Medical and psychological support for an abused child.

Myanmar – $12 Warm Blanket or $48 Warm blankets for 4 children.

Vietnam – $28 8kg of rice seeds and 5 litres of fresh milk or $140 Rice seeds and fresh milk for 5 children.

Zambia – $49 One food pack for a month or $245 food packs for 5 children

and more…….

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As you give, you can be sure that someone’s life on the other side of the world is changing for the better because of you. May you find great joy in your heart as you give, and thank you for giving these children a reason to smile.

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The Last Farewell to my Wife — Lee Kuan Yew

October 06, 2010
Oct 6 — Ancient peoples developed and ritualised mourning practices to express the shared grief of family and friends, and together show not fear or distaste for death, but respect for the dead one; and to give comfort to the living who will miss the deceased. I recall the ritual mourning when my maternal grandmother died some 75 years ago. For five nights the family would gather to sing her praises and wail and mourn at her departure, led by a practiced professional mourner.
Such rituals are no longer observed. My family’s sorrow is to be expressed in personal tributes to the matriarch of our family.
In October 2003 when she had her first stroke, we had a strong intimation of our mortality. My wife and I have been together since 1947 for more than three quarters of our lives. My grief at her passing cannot be expressed in words. But today, when recounting our lives together, I would like to celebrate her life. In our quiet moments, we would revisit our lives and times together. We had been most fortunate. At critical turning points in our lives, fortune favoured us.
As a young man with an interrupted education at Raffles College, and no steady job or profession, her parents did not look upon me as a desirable son-in-law. But she had faith in me. We had committed ourselves to each other. I decided to leave for England in September 1946 to read law, leaving her to return to Raffles College to try to win one of the two Queen’s Scholarships awarded yearly. We knew that only one Singaporean would be awarded. I had the resources, and sailed for England, and hoped that she would join me after winning the Queen’s Scholarship. If she did not win it, she would have to wait for me for three years. In June the next year, 1947, she did win it. But the British colonial office could not get her a place in Cambridge.
Through Chief Clerk of Fitzwilliam, I discovered that my Censor at Fitzwilliam, W S Thatcher, was a good friend of the Mistress of Girton, Miss Butler. He gave me a letter of introduction to the Mistress. She received me and I assured her that Choo would most likely take a “First”, because she was the better student when we both were at Raffles College.
I had come up late by one term to Cambridge, yet passed my first year qualifying examination with a class 1. She studied Choo’s academic record and decided to admit her in October that same year, 1947. We have kept each other company ever since. We married privately in December 1947 at Stratford-upon-Avon. At Cambridge, we both put in our best efforts. She took a first in two years in Law Tripos II. I took a double first, and a starred first for the finals, but in three years.
We did not disappoint our tutors. Our Cambridge Firsts gave us a good start in life. Returning to Singapore, we both were taken on as legal assistants in Laycock & Ong, a thriving law firm in Malacca Street. Then we married officially a second time that September 1950 to please our parents and friends. She practised conveyancing and draftsmanship, I did litigation.
In February 1952, our first son Hsien Loong was born. She took maternity leave for a year. That February, I was asked by John Laycock, the Senior Partner, to take up the case of the Postal and Telecommunications Uniformed Staff Union, the postmen’s union. They were negotiating with the government for better terms and conditions of service. Negotiations were deadlocked and they decided to go on strike. It was a battle for public support. I was able to put across the reasonableness of their case through the press and radio. After a fortnight, they won concessions from the government. Choo, who was at home on maternity leave, pencilled through my draft statements, making them simple and clear.
Over the years, she influenced my writing style. Now I write in short sentences, in the active voice. We gradually influenced each other’s ways and habits as we adjusted and accommodated each other. We knew that we could not stay starry-eyed lovers all our lives; that life was an on-going challenge with new problems to resolve and manage.

We had two more children, Wei Ling in 1955 and Hsien Yang in 1957. She brought them up to be well-behaved, polite, considerate and never to throw their weight as the prime minister’s children. As a lawyer, she earned enough, to free me from worries about the future of our children. She saw the price I paid for not having mastered Mandarin when I was young. We decided to send all three children to Chinese kindergarten and schools. She made sure they learned English and Malay well at home. Her nurturing has equipped them for life in a multi-lingual region. We never argued over the upbringing of our children, nor over financial matters. Our earnings and assets were jointly held. We were each other’s confidant.
She had simple pleasures. We would walk around the Istana gardens in the evening, and I hit golf balls to relax.
Later, when we had grandchildren, she would take them to feed the fish and the swans in the Istana ponds. Then we would swim. She was interested in her surroundings, for instance, that many bird varieties were pushed out by mynahs and crows eating up the insects and vegetation.
She discovered the curator of the gardens had cleared wild grasses and swing fogged for mosquitoes, killing off insects they fed on. She stopped this and the bird varieties returned. She surrounded the swimming pool with free flowering scented flowers and derived great pleasure smelling them as she swam. She knew each flower by its popular and botanical names. She had an enormous capacity for words. She had majored in English literature at Raffles College and was a voracious reader, from Jane Austen to JRR Tolkien, from Thucydides’ The Peloponnesian Wars to Virgil’s Aeneid, to The Oxford Companion to Food, and Seafood of Southeast Asia, to Roadside Trees of Malaya, and Birds of Singapore.
She helped me draft the Constitution of the PAP. For the inaugural meeting at Victoria Memorial Hall on 4 November 1954, she gathered the wives of the founder members to sew rosettes for those who were going on stage. In my first election for Tanjong Pagar, our home in Oxley Road, became the HQ to assign cars provided by my supporters to ferry voters to the polling booth.
She warned me that I could not trust my new found associates, the leftwing trade unionists led by Lim Chin Siong. She was furious that he never sent their high school student helpers to canvass for me in Tanjong Pagar, yet demanded the use of cars provided by my supporters to ferry my Tanjong Pagar voters. She had an uncanny ability to read the character of a person. She would sometimes warn me to be careful of certain persons; often, she turned out to be right.
When we were about to join Malaysia, she told me that we would not succeed because the UMNO Malay leaders had such different lifestyles and because their politics were communally-based, on race and religion. I replied that we had to make it work as there was no better choice. But she was right. We were asked to leave Malaysia before two years.

When separation was imminent, Eddie Barker, as Law Minister, drew up the draft legislation for the separation. But he did not include an undertaking by the Federation Government to guarantee the observance of the two water agreements between the PUB and the Johor state government. I asked Choo to include this. She drafted the undertaking as part of the constitutional amendment of the Federation of Malaysia Constitution itself. She was precise and meticulous in her choice of words. The amendment statute was annexed to the Separation Agreement, which we then registered with the United Nations.
The then Commonwealth Secretary Arthur Bottomley said that if other federations were to separate, he hoped they would do it as professionally as Singapore and Malaysia. It was a compliment to Eddie’s and Choo’s professional skills. Each time Malaysian Malay leaders threatened to cut off our water supply, I was reassured that this clear and solemn international undertaking by the Malaysian government in its Constitution will get us a ruling by the UNSC (United Nations Security Council).
After her first stroke, she lost her left field of vision. This slowed down her reading. She learned to cope, reading with the help of a ruler. She swam every evening and kept fit. She continued to travel with me, and stayed active despite the stroke. She stayed in touch with her family and old friends. She listened to her collection of CDs, mostly classical, plus some golden oldies. She jocularly divided her life into “before stroke” and “after stroke”, like BC and AD. She was friendly and considerate to all associated with her. She would banter with her WSOs (woman security officers) and correct their English grammar and pronunciation in a friendly and cheerful way. Her former WSOs visited her when she was at NNI. I thank them all.
Her second stroke on 12 May 2008 was more disabling. I encouraged and cheered her on, helped by a magnificent team of doctors, surgeons, therapists and nurses. Her nurses, WSOs and maids all grew fond of her because she was warm and considerate. When she coughed, she would take her small pillow to cover her mouth because she worried for them and did not want to infect them. Her mind remained clear but her voice became weaker. When I kissed her on her cheek, she told me not to come too close to her in case I caught her pneumonia. I assured her that the doctors did not think that was likely because I was active.
When given some peaches in hospital, she asked the maid to take one home for my lunch. I was at the centre of her life.
On 24 June 2008, a CT scan revealed another bleed again on the right side of her brain. There was not much more that medicine or surgery could do except to keep her comfortable. I brought her home on 3 July 2008. The doctors expected her to last a few weeks. She lived till 2nd October, 2 years and 3 months.
She remained lucid. They gave time for me and my children to come to terms with the inevitable. In the final few months, her faculties declined. She could not speak but her cognition remained. She looked forward to have me talk to her every evening. Her last wish she shared with me was to enjoin our children to have our ashes placed together, as we were in life.
The last two years of her life were the most difficult. She was bedridden after small successive strokes; she could not speak but she was still cognisant. Every night she would wait for me to sit by her to tell her of my day’s activities and to read her favourite poems. Then she would sleep.
I have precious memories of our 63 years together. Without her, I would be a different man, with a different life. She devoted herself to me and our children. She was always there when I needed her. She has lived a life full of warmth and meaning. I should find solace at her 89 years of her life well lived. But at this moment of the final parting, my heart is heavy with sorrow and grief.
* This eulogy by Singapore’s Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew was delivered at the funeral service of his wife, Madam Kwa Geok Choo at a private ceremony at Mandai Cremetorium today.

New Blog On My Catholic Spiritual Journey

Well I’ve started a new blog on my Catholic Spiritual Journey, where I hope to go on a lifelong journey to deepen my faith through knowledge, the Word and works.

For those interested there is a link on my about page, this blog however will continue whenever I have the time to update.

Cheers mates!


One Minute Sermon

Catholics Come Home…


Me BirdDay Month Entry

It is apparent now that I spend more time updating twitter and Facebook out of sheer convienience.  And lo and behold the end of June is fast approaching without a single entry, save for the pic entry of Seth below which I managed to send to wordpress via email.  Anyhow let’s see if this entry will be the ‘Mother’ of all entries for June.  :D

*sings* where do I begin? to tell the story of how great a love can be….*stops* oops got carried away there for a second….

BDAY Stuff

Okay so I was doing the night shift the day before my birthday and the next morning my colleagues came in with food, drinks and a present for me.  Oh and before you say how sweet a bunch they are, which they can be when they want to actually, the birthday prezzie thing comes out of our monthly contribution for birthdays so in the end it’s like buying yourself a present when your actual day arrives. :D  Finger Food and drinks though, are sponsored by our Boss.  Pic one shows you just how much weight I’ve put on…well actually it’s meant to show moi unwrapping the present. Pic Two is a failed attempt at a cutesie pose! lol

Bday Prezzie

Failed Kawaii Pose

But the best birthday present I received this year has got to be from my ‘brother’ John Low!  He got me this…..

AC RYAN Media Box

Playon!HD mini

  • Full HD Media Player
  • HDMI up to 1080p (Full HD)
  •  Enjoy Full HD video (H.264, MKV, RM/RMVB) on TV
  • UPnP Media Streaming
  • Wired & Wireless Network
    (Wired Network is included / Wireless Network is an optional extra, not included in the standard package. To enjoy wireless network at up to 300Mbps, purchase the Wireless option)
  • Download BitTorrent to external media
    * Available in future firmware update
  • Listen to Internet Radio
  • Internet Feeds
    (Picassa, Flickr, News Feeds)
  • Enjoy a Slideshow of your favorite photos

A/V Out: 

  • HDMI interface up to 1080p
  • Composite Video
  • Composite Audio
  • Y/Pb/Pr Video
  • SPDIF Optical TOSLink (digital audio)

Storage supported:

  • External USB hard disk
  • External USB media card readers
  • USB disks / USB stick
  • Network drive
  • USB 2.0 Host Controller

  • USB 2.0 Interface
  • USB Mass Storage Devices (harddrives, flashdrives)
  • Add ports with USB hubs, USB cardreaders
  • Storage supported:

    • Browse network by navigation or direct IP address
    • Save Shortcuts to easily access network locations
    • Plays / streams audio/video/image media from any device in network
    • Use Playon! HD to play any media in network
    • Play media stored in Playon! HD from anywhere in network

    Network – Wired:

    • LAN Ethernet 10/100Mbps Auto-negotiation
    • Built-in DHCP for Auto IP or Manual Fixed IP

    Network – Wireless
    (optional, not incl.):

  • Wireless WLAN 802.11b/g/n 300Mbps via USB WLAN adaptor (optional, not incl.)
  • Supports WLAN security WEP / WPA
  • Supports WLAN Peer-to-Peer (connects wireless without router)
  • Video Formats Supported:

  • AVI / MKV / TS / TP / TRP / M2TS / MPG / MP4 / MOV / M4V / VOB / ISO / IFO / DAT / WMV / ASF / RM / RMVB / FLV resolution up to 720p / 1080i / 1080p / DB-ISO
  • Video Codecs Supported:

  • MPEG-1 / MPEG-2 / MPEG-4 SP/ASP/AVC (H.264) / XviD / DivX / WMV9 (VC-1) / RealVideo 8/9/10 (up to 720P)
  • Video Output Supported:
    • PAL / NTSC / 480p / 576 / 720p / 1080i 50Hz / 1080i 60Hz / 1080p 50Hz / 1080p 60Hz
    Audio Formats Supported:
    • MP3 / MP2 / WMA / AAC / FLAC / WAV / OGG Vorbis / PCM / LPCM / MS-ADPCM / LC-AAC / HE-AAC / COOK / RA-Lossless
    Audio Formats Supported:
    • Stereo
    • Dolby Digital AC3 5.1
      • (passthrough & downmix to stereo)
    • Dolby Digital Plus
      • (passthrough)
    • DTS
      • (passthrough & downmix to stereo)
    • DTS-HD Master Audio
      • (passthrough core stream & downmix to stereo)
    • FLAC 7.1
      • (passthrough & downmix to stereo)
    Image Formats Supported:
    Subtitle Formats Supported:
    Character sets supported
    (needed for text subtitles):
    • Unicode (UTF8), BIG5 (Traditional Chinese), Western, Turkish, Central European, Greek, Cyrillic, SE European, Hebrew

    Boy am I loving this new gadget…..Oh speaking of gadgets, I downloaded the new Iphone OS 4.0 firmware and I think it’s great! Lots of overall improvement though I doubt if the pure novice will ever figure out what’s really different unless they download the manual which Apple has recently made available.  For instance unless you’ve read up about it on the forums etc. you might not know that, to create a folder you’d have to move one app ontop of the other before a folder is automatically created with a recommended name which you can keep or edit.  Or that double pressing the button at the bottom will show you the apps pocket or the ‘multitask’ area  (not in the real sense of the term).

    Little Time Away

    For a short holiday away from Singapore, I brought the family up to Sunway Lagoon where we stayed at my Gee Kor’s place (2nd Aunt from my Father’s side) well actually I should say my Richard Kor Kor’s home (elder Cousin ) since his mother, my Aunt is staying with him.  Anyhow the home is in Subang Jaya which is approx 8 minutes away from Sunway by car.  We had lots of fantastic tasting durian and other such delightful goodies which he pampered us with, during our stay.   

    We spent most of our time shopping around at the Pyramid Shopping Centre, Berjaya Times Square and Mid-Valley Megamall this was of course only after the kids enjoyed themselves both at Sunway lagoon and at Berjaya Times Square Indoor Amusement Park – Cosmos World.  This time round Seth could go for a little more of the rides now that he is older and taller. 

    As for the shopping itself, I must say that not everything is cheaper over there. Only certain foodstuff are really dirtcheap, as for clothing etc. well you don’t really save much on the exchange rate. unless of course you are shopping for clothing for the home, like tshirts and shorts.  Madame managed to get some really good deals on shoes and a dress or two.  The kids got some polo tees and long pants and as for me….well I only got a nice leather wallet for about SGD40 and a really nice long sleeve shirt with cufflings from Ted Baker which costs me Rm199.00 which works out to be around SGD86.00

    Didn’t take much pictures this time round, but the little that I did was uploaded to Facebook.  I do however some pictures of some great tasting food we had which I will place here too……

    From left to right -

    Stewed pork belly with Yam, Homemade Beancurd With Vegetables, Char Siew & Sio Bak (Honey Barbequed & Roast Pork) and Cod Fish Wrapped with Tau kee topped with Tau Chio and Black Fungus.

     Wifi Access experience In KL –
    Sunway Pyramid – Good
    Mid-Valley Megamall – Sucks
    Berjaya Times Square – So So only but at OLDtown Coffee House on the 5th Floor I think the access is FANTASTIC!

    **Note to self** At Sunway Pyramid at LG2.93 in Marrakesh – shop name Country’s Tid Bits & Candies Cottage is where you bought all your Nan Yang Coffee Mix, Tea Mix, Chek Hup coffee, Dodols, Coconut Strips Candy.

    Back home……

    Kenan’s Medical Appointment

    Had to bring him for his hearing and refraction tests because during the school nurses’ visit….once again they said he had problems and needed further tests.  We went all the way to SGH, where he passed all the tests they made him take. WHEW!

    Eucharistic Ministry

    Our parish priest approached me to join the EM and initially I was reluctant because I felt and still do feel that I am not worthy nor ready for it.  But he had convinced me to just attend the meetings first and learn because it would take at least six months before anyone is allowed to perform the duty.  I attended my first meeting on Monday….

    Gourmet Food In A Can

    Just tried it today and I must say it is quite tasty…..$6

    Other Random Stuff

    Just learnt yesterday that my Supervisor, aka colleague aka Friend of 14 years has resigned! Well it was indeed upsetting news even though I fully understand why….really didn’t have the mood to work all day….

    Next… I the only one? or does this line/sentence sound condescending?

    If you wanna stay angry then that’s up to you.”

    Moreover this was said after an apology was given…so now it not only sounded condescending to me but whatever was uttered before i.e. the apology was just lip service?!   Well he can DUCK off!  The nerve of some  people!  who are just sooooo into themselves they use terms like ‘Right For US’ when they mean self-centredly they want what’s best for themselves.  They have no decency or respect for others because I believe it all stems from their own upbringing!  Had to rant for awhile in white sorry…..

    Finally…..who do you think will take the World Cup? I’m rooting for Argentina and Germany!



    And FOR ALL MY FAITHFUL blogreaders or what’s left of you….heh heh…

    He’s My Brother

    Can’t Wipe The Grin Of My Face…

    It is great to have fun loving people follow your lead as you fly off to Never Never Land!


    What do I mean?…..well after my post night shift I was feeling tired and the gloomy rainy weather didn’t help my disposition.   So for fun I posted this entry on my wall on Facebook which read….

    “I am spiritually at this location for the next two days and cannot be reached 25.084899,-77.318172 *blinks*

    Within a few minutes these are the comments I got…. (Minus 45 mins or so to show you how quick I got a response because I only copied the comments 45 mins later)


    Irene – and where is that?
    48 minutes ago ·

    Yvonne – Bermuda triangle???
    46 minutes ago ·

    Julian – Enter the coordinates in google map dearies!
    ; )
    44 minutes ago ·

    Yvonne – sorry la no GPS…
    44 minutes ago ·

    Patricia – Mars
    43 minutes ago ·

    Julian - Atlantis Resort Paradise Island Nassau, Bahamas
    Take care…adios…*closes eyes*
    Leaving in T-minus 10, 9, 8,7 ,6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1……..

    we have lift off!…………..*muacks*
    37 minutes ago ·

    Yvonne – enjoy!!!
    35 minutes ago ·

    Irene – ha ha ha enjoy
    15 minutes ago ·

    Midway through these conversations I actually posted a pic of where I would be staying…i.e. spiritually!

    Where I'll Be Staying...

    And these are some comments I got….
    Patricia – Wah so nice and peaceful, i would go and not come back lol
    42 minutes ago ·

    Julian – I’ll send you a virtual postcard spiritually lol…adios amigo…
    40 minutes ago ·

    Leslie – wheres this?? Atlantis ah??
    39 minutes ago ·

    Julian – *replying mid-spiritual flight to the bahamas*

    Yup Atlantis Resort Paradise Island….

    will return all msgs when I return…lol *winks*……..
    35 minutes ago ·

    Patricia – Have a safe and beautiful trip
    20 minutes ago ·

    So for the Finale I decided to post another picture….
    I have arrived safely, here is a postcard of the beachfront! Cheers! *raises margarita*
    And the last few comments I got for it….
    Eileen – oh my nice lah..where are u..
    32 minutes ago ·
    Patricia – So clear the water , where is this place mailbox me
    28 minutes ago ·
    What a FUN evening it turned out to be…..see ya when I return!…. :lol:

    On Love

    Love in it’s purest form is given unconditionally, without when, why or where.

    Can we love one another with conviction armed with a higher set of morals, when we are surrounded by a cloud of darkness from within and from the wanton acts of others?
    I say we lean into the light by our endeavours!


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